How to choose a dating app
With so many dating apps out there, it's hard to know which one to trust. There's no "best app in the world" for everyone: each platform has a different audience, way of working, and billing model. This page gathers the things you should consider before downloading and creating a profile.
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If you've ever tried dating apps and encountered fake profiles, empty conversations, or people who weren't interested, you're not alone.
Part of the problem is using an app that doesn't match what you're looking for. Some are better suited for casual dating, others for serious relationships, friendships, or specific audiences, such as older people or the LGBTQIA+ community.
Before installing, read the description in the store, check the latest reviews, and verify who the developer is. Also, be wary of apps that claim to be "compatible by name" or "love test": these are entertainment games and do not connect you with real people.
What to look for in a dating app
Some features help to provide a safer experience with less wasted time. The most useful are:
- Profile verification: Selfie verification or a verified badge reduces the number of fake profiles.
- Filter by intent: Indicating whether you're looking for something serious, casual, or friendship helps you find someone who wants the same thing.
- Blocking and reporting: They should be easy to find within the conversations.
- Privacy controls: Options to hide the exact distance, pause the profile, and choose who can see your photos.
- Transparency in billing: The store informs you which features are paid and how much the subscription costs.
Common questions
Are dating apps free? Most allow you to create a profile and chat for free, but limit likes and filters. Features like seeing who liked your posts are usually part of the subscriptions.
How can you tell if a profile is real? Prefer verified profiles, be wary of those who avoid video calls, and never send money, codes, or bank details to someone you met through the app.
Does it work for serious relationships? It might work, especially in apps where you can indicate your intention in your profile. There's no guarantee of results.
What precautions should you take on a first date? Arrange to meet in a public place, let someone you trust know, and go using your own transportation.
Before downloading
Define what you're looking for, try the free version before subscribing, and use the app's security features. Below you'll find guides to specific dating apps.